Saturday, August 6, 2011
Happy Independence Day Jamaica
Motto: "Out of Many, One People".
Anthem: "Jamaica, Land We Love"
Eternal Father bless our land
Guard us with Thy mighty hand.
Keep us free from evil powers
Be our light through countless hours
To our leaders, Great Defender,
Grant true wisdom from above
Justice, truth, be ours forever,
Jamaica Land we love.
Jamaica, Jamaica, Jamaica
Land we love.
Guard us with Thy mighty hand.
Keep us free from evil powers
Be our light through countless hours
To our leaders, Great Defender,
Grant true wisdom from above
Justice, truth, be ours forever,
Jamaica Land we love.
Jamaica, Jamaica, Jamaica
Land we love.
Teach us true respect for all
Stir response to duty's call.
Strengthen us the weak to cherish
Give us vision lest we perish
Knowledge send us Heavenly Father
Grant true wisdom from above,
Justice, truth, be ours forever
Jamaica Land we love.
Jamaica, Jamaica, Jamaica
Land we love.
Stir response to duty's call.
Strengthen us the weak to cherish
Give us vision lest we perish
Knowledge send us Heavenly Father
Grant true wisdom from above,
Justice, truth, be ours forever
Jamaica Land we love.
Jamaica, Jamaica, Jamaica
Land we love.
Saturday, July 23, 2011
More Raising of the Debt Limit talks
AM I the only one that feels like this is all just for TV... I mean of course their going to raise.... show and pony come on already. I'm over it. As if we don't have enough to worry about, jobs, security, peace of mind for our futures and our kids future!
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
Venting 101 ~ THE BITTER B%@$!
Seriously if you are so obsess with hoping your significant
other is a cheating scumbag like yourself you are pathetic…
If you so high of your own supply and messed around and loss
the best you ever had I feel sorry for ya, but you should have been smarter and
quit that shit…
If you looked at all this,
I have to offer and have offered to your sorry ass, and still been
dipping in someone else’s yard, you can jump, hop, and a skip to the other side
of the grass honey… cause you just saved me from a lifetime of heart ache…
Bitter bitch… YES I AM – who’s asking , years out of my
life, bared his child, faithful, supportive, devoted to your cheating, negative
breathing, minimal effort ass… ahhh yea I’m bitter so what…
I will be that, and move it to the left and move on, but
before I go I will continue to tell you, you’re tacky, sad, and stupid...
And though I may have been the one who hoped you’d change for
us, for her, for our family… I’m glad you failed, disappointed, and shamed me
with your behavior….
Is Fantasia Pregnant???
Well it seems so, Here's a picture of her performing at Baltimore's Art Scape Festival this year.
Beyonce Complex Magazine 2011 Aug/Sept Cover
D'angelo is Coming Back
After his 11 year hiatus, D'Angelo is making a comeback... sources say he was spotted in the studio recently with Questlove of Roots in NYC working on his Album... After enduring a car accident, followed by an arrest for drug possession he is finally coming back for some of your brown sugar...
Sally Hansen Salon Effects
Sally Hansen Salon Effect is so hot, it is the new must have for your nails. I love it, its like instant fab for your nails, and it last for a while. Try it you'll be glad you did.
Friday, July 15, 2011
Changes
Sometimes we hold on to things, because we desire for it so
much, when we should have let go a long time ago. You do not hold the key to
change another person’s perception of you. All the good you do, all you give,
and all you say can never truly change how they see you, treat you, or use you.
You will find yourself changing yourself, hiding when you’ve done nothing
wrong, scrambling to be what you think is perfect in their minds when, the
truth is you have no power in the situation. You cannot change others’ minds
unless they want their minds to be changed.
Some people chooses other people because they believe they
are more alike than others, same characteristics, same ways, whatever. What happens when one chooses to change, now
the dynamics of the relationship changes. You are no longer the same in ways,
which that person embodied you to be. Now the changer wants the unchanged
changed!
For instance, you’re a cheater and the other person you get
with is a cheater. Over time, you both promise to stop cheating. You stopped,
but your partner couldn’t. Now you are ridiculing your significant other
because they’re still cheating… or even better you’re both crack heads and you
both decided to kick the habit. You did it, but your partner keeps relapsing…
now you are calling them a crack head and pointing a finger… who’s wrong?
It is so much easier to see the faults in others and point
the finger, because you know you’ve done no wrong, but what if your wrong is
not admitting it was time to go when you realized that the changes you promised
to changed was changed and the other person’s was not. What if you are wrong
waiting for that person to change, but in the process you spotlight them and
their issues to the point they are constantly under surveillance? What if it has gotten so out of hand, the
other person is no longer focused on their change, but is now convinced that
you must be hiding something to be so determined and your point is lost in the
mist of it all?
We can all be bitter for the turn out in a nasty or
undesired break up, but what was your role… it’s not always what you have done
wrong… sometimes it’s what you haven’t done.
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
Thursday, July 7, 2011
Commitment
To be or not to be is the question. This week my focus has been on commitment and
what is its place in a relationship. When you meet someone you think you are in
love with, or you think is the one you make a commitment to them…. Well lets
back track… let us take this from the prospective of today’s society. When two
people get together whether out of lust, love, or a facade they tend to say
lets date, let’s go out, let’s be in a relationship…i.e. let’s commit to each
other, but making a commitment can be a dangerous and serious matter depending
the context of that commitment.
Commitments can change lives, make and break futures, hearts, and trust.
So let’s talk a little about the word commitment in terms of
a relationship. Commitment binds you like a contract of the heart, mind, and
soul. You vow never to hurt the other person physically, mental, and so on. You
in essence marry that person without the ring, the vowels, and the church. But many of us take this word and its meaning
so lightly.
Some may ask, how can you be committed if you are not sure
about the other person… and the truth is commitment is a personal choice, a vow,
you may say that you make to yourself about your relationship. You can never
base commitment on the other persons:
behavior, actions, or words. Let me explain that more… Without you knowing what the other person is
doing and thinking you have to make it up in your mind that you are going to be
faithful, helpful, and kind to that person. You live your life committed to
that person, and honor your commitment. Now that doesn’t mean that the other
person has to live by the same code, and that’s the danger about commitment.
When someone is hurt because they found out that you are cheating
on them, that doesn’t mean that they aren’t cheating on you! That only means
that finding out that the person you love is with someone else hurts. With that said you cannot judge if someone is
being committed to you by their words, or their reaction to a hurtful
situation, but by their actions over time consistently.
Just because they are not being committed doesn’t always
mean that they don’t love you it just means that, they are not ready for that
step in life within their selves.
The definition of commitment by dictionary terms is 1) the
act of committing, 2) the state of being committed, 3) the act of committing,
pledging, or engaging oneself.
And when you say you are committed you must first understand
the meaning of commit by dictionary terms: 1) to give in trust or charge;
consign, 2) to pledge (oneself) to a position on an issue or question; express
one’s intention, feelings, etc.
So to wrap this up a commitment is something
made to one’s self. You base it on if you are ready it’s a step a milestone in
life one that when used in a relationship should be taken seriously. Hence why
when you are just “dating”, you should explain to the other person the level of
commitment you are able to give. When you are “engaged”, explain what has
changed in your commitment (promise). And finally when you are “married”, you
must be ready and explain your complete commitmen
Privileges...without the ring
Many women and men when we enter into a relationship we feel
compel to give our all. Your trust, love, faithfulness, body, heart, and soul…
but slow down.
Privilege 1) Getting to know you
A new relationship should be spent learning each other
defining, if you truly like each other, in other words getting to know the
person beyond the bed, the smile, the laugh, their outer appearance. As your
relationship progresses so should your privileges. And just because you acted
out in the midst of passion doesn’t mean you have to continue it. Allow each
other the space to make decision on is this the one. Go on dates, seek out each
other’s interest then pursue them together. Learn each other’s “first ways”.
*Never rush to live together, share bank accounts together, and
start a family together before knowing if this is what you want to do forever.
Privilege 2) Lets take it slow
When you are (sure), you can take the steps towards sharing
these live changing things. You can start a separate bank account together, but
keep your own separate accounts. Ladies allow the man to make the next step solely
on his own, let him engage, don’t force the issue, and let it happen. Men allow
the woman to commit to you, don’t scare her, con her, and mislead her. If you
have been waiting too long i.e. 4-6 years for an engagement, for that
commitment, then you should have that conversation on what is blocking the next
step in your lives together.
*When you take it slow you make the better decisions in life,
and the fear of losing that person should never be a question, if you are both
feeding your relationship.
Privilege 3) Your house or mine
Living together should be after you are both serious about
taking the next step ~ marriage~. I recommended that after an engagement two
people should live together to see the “true ways” of the other person, because
their “first ways” that has been shown to you in the beginning and through your
relationship thus far are far more different sometimes than their “true ways”.
*Also, know that having a child together does not mean you
are locked in, unfortunately, there is always the possibility that it may not
work, so basing your decision on whether you are stay in a relationship because
of a child is in almost every case a bad decision.
Privilege 4) Lets get it on
Getting married the ultimate decision… women we live for it,
men we close our eyes and step into it. Know that this is a decision you want
to make once. So, choosing wisely, and taking it seriously is very important to
the maintenance and survival of your marriage.
*Important notes
- Sex is determined by you and only you…
- Just because you may have started your relationship wrong, does mean you have to continue living it wrong
- Your life is what you make it
- If you are the only keeping the commitments asked of your relationship then you should exit stage right and leave that relationship
- Communication, finance, and trust are the true measure of if a relationship is going to last, because as you progress in your relationships you will get comfortable, relax and your love for the other person matures overtime through different stages
- You have to be honest to yourself and not selfish to your partner, if you’re not ready it far better to say it now than forever hold it and live them in the dark and alone
- Appreciate the one you are with if you truly want to be their
- Remember tomorrow is never promised to no man or woman
Thursday, June 23, 2011
Forever never......
I lost my life partner yesterday and the divorce was tragic…
I thought this was my forever, so I kind of banked my whole
life in it.
For those who knew me well, knew that I chose not to diversify
my earnings.
As if life hasn’t taught me that there is no sure thing.
I followed that movie in my head that said “you do it right,
it will be all right”,
I did it right and I lost my life savings.
We were more than just lovers, BF, we were best friends
forever.
We can fight like dogs, and then laugh at the dog at the
same time.
We weren’t perfect but what relationship is.
I can’t lie it’s like a bulldozer plowed my house up off the
ground…
While I was watching TV
I’m reaching for ground, but no ladder is that high to help
me down…
And the aftermath is that of a hopeless feeling for love…
I need a blanket and a lot of tissue…lol at this age I
thought I would be able to shake it off like Mariah,
I reached for my phone but had no one to call, I felt like a
baby,
You beat them, and then they come right back to you.
Where the hell are all my suitors… O yeah I did it right… I
would like to be the girl that said never again.
But, I won’t one bad apple won’t ruin the rest for me…
I thought the feeling was mutual and all would be well,
I even planned our wedding day down to the bells,
Well, where do I go from here… I guess I’ll start with the
obvious
New hair, new shoes, new attitude….
Lesson learned…Follow your instincts and slow love down to
your speed… never listen to their words… but follow their actions.
Monday, June 20, 2011
Today, thoughts, quotes, me
So, He likes it when I call him Daddy... Hey Daddy ;-)
It's my life I will live it as I please in my F*ing bubble...Thanks
Friday, June 17, 2011
Lupe Fiasco - Paris, Tokyo (video)
He said this song reminds him of me… and it made me smile, I
mean
I love the fact that he things…. About me, it makes me happy
when he shares how he feels… its romantic…you know.
And its so___________o melodic it takes me away. I feel like
we can really get lost in the tune of this song you know I love shit like this
for real,
It turned me on and I wish in that moment I could make his
every wish come through ecstasy dreams I, wanted to fulfill that very moment
his lips parted and said listen “this song always reminds me of you, because
you love to travel…
And I do… travel the world the roads the seas I hope one day
we can both see the beautiful coasts of Spain.
He makes me come when I see his arms they reach for me and I…
cum…
I wonder if he knows how he makes me feel, music is the key
to both our deepest fantasies it make us dream, sail away in the mystery of its
powers to make you, shape you, persuade you, feel you, tease you… I want to be
fussed with you in the land of the lost to this song I want to make you laugh,
you know that laugh the one you make after you grab my hair and stair into my
soul… your eyes asking me how did I know right before you smile…. Smiles, hugs,
kisses …
Jacob Latimore - Nothing On Me
New artist on the scene, I see another star... only fourteen and he got it!!!
Wednesday, June 15, 2011
10 Beauty Myths for Women
THE REAL DEAL: Scary, but true. A lack of movement, particularly when sitting with your legs crossed or standing for long periods of time can cause unsightly leg veins. "Leg veins must fight against gravity to pump blood back up to the heart," says Dr. Strachan. "When they become weak, the blood backs up, the veins bulge and become visible." While leg crossing may be a contributor, many other factors including genetics, age, pregnancy, obesity, and hormonal changes may also be culprits.
MYTH #2: Cocoa butter helps get rid of dark marks.
THE REAL DEAL: As much as many of us slather this stuff on, we should have clear and glowing skin by now. No wonder we don't: Cocoa butter does not get rid of dark marks. There is no science to support this myth. What it does do is soften skin, but be sure to avoid applying it to the face as the oils in it may clog pores and cause additional breakouts.
MYTH #3: Washing your face every night prevents breakouts.
THE REAL DEAL: For many, this is true. Regular face washing decreases the daily build up of oils that help to feed acne-causing bacteria. However, in other cases, genetics, hormones, and stress are the major contributors to acne breakouts. Nevertheless, daily washing helps clear buildup, so keep at it. Try adding an oil-free acne wash like Purpose Gentle Cleansing Wash ($6, Walgreens.com) to your routine.
THE REAL DEAL: Nope. "Unless you are rubbing greasy pizza on your face, there is no reason to believe that junk food or chocolate cause breakouts," says Dr. Jones. Be sure to know the difference between having a reaction to certain food and acne. If you break out every time you each chocolate or drink soda, you may be allergic, but it's not acne.
MYTH #5: Using foundation daily clogs your pores.
THE REAL DEAL: Clogged pores does cause acne, and if the foundation that you're using is not non-comedogenic, meaning it does not clog pores, it can lead to breakouts. If it doesn't say "non-comedogenic" on the label it cause acne flares, even if it says oil-free. Try: Shiseido Sheer Matifying Compact SPF 22 ($30, sephora.com)
THE REAL DEAL: This is a myth--nothing changes pore size. Using a washcloth won't tear at pores, but if you already have breakouts the abrasive texture can rupture blemishes and worsen hyperpigmentation. Also, washcloths harbor bacteria so unless you are using a clean one each time it can cause breakouts.
MYTH #7: Dabbing toothpaste on pimples will dry them out faster.
THE REAL DEAL: Yep, toothpaste (especially, the traditional white or opaque pastes) has drying properties, probably due to one of its ingredients, silica or alcohol. The drying agent works to clear red and inflamed bumps, but Dr. Strachan says that it will likely do nothing for a blackhead or whitehead. Also, "be careful with this treatment, as other ingredients in the toothpaste may irritate the skin," she says. If your skin is super-sensitive, try an all-natural toothpaste like Tom's of Maine ($4.99,drugstore.com).
THE REAL DEAL: While this sounds like a nice and natural way to ward off wrinkles, it's untrue. "Gravity is gravity, and no constant upsweeping motion with lotion will prevent sagging," says Dr. Jones. Good genes, not smoking and limiting sun exposure helps limit some sagging.
MYTH #9: Plucking one grey hair will cause two to grow in its place.
THE REAL DEAL: The cause of gray hair is the loss of melanin in the hair as part of the aging process - not plucking. However, Dr. Jones warns against plucking, as "it causes inflammation of the hair follicea, and subsequent hyperpigmentation," she says.
MYTH #10: Drinking tons of water will give you clear skin.
THE REAL DEAL: H2O has many great health benefits, but unfortunately clear skin isn't one of them. "Certainly, water is an important component of our overall health, but water alone, not even tons of it, will give you clear skin," says Dr. Jones.
THE REAL DEAL: "Eyes and eyelids are held in place by many muscles of the forehead and eye socket. An overly aggressive waxer would have to destroy these muscles for the eye to be pushed down," says Dr. Jones.
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How to make a woman cum
There is an old Chinese saying:
Man is fire, woman is water. The man's fire brings the woman's water to boiling.
Listen to your girlfriend; she says: "if the circumstances were right maybe it would be possible" . Women are not, as men are, immediately stimulated by sight. They need more time. They need the right atmosphere, some romance; sometimes candles and soft music can help.
To get her to desire you and want to have sex, you have to court her, so that she feels like an attractive woman, and not like a service provider. Men can often make up a quarrel by making love, but women need to feel that the relationship is good first, in order to feel desire.
"Why don't you want to make love with me?" is a question that kills all desire. Say instead: "You are so beautiful, I cannot resist you!"
If she is stressed and thinks of problems, sex will not work. She needs to get in the right mood. Be helpful and give her a lot of care and appreciation.
Making love is a slow process for a woman and may have to start many hours in advance, by fondness and attention from the man she loves.
Women need a much longer foreplay than men. Start by whispering sweet words in her ear and fondling her all over her body, but not in the genital area.
Be sensitive, all the time, to what she likes and what she wants to hear.
Do not fondle the genital area until she is ready (use lubricating gel, which you can buy in a drug store). You need to have patience. She may not get an orgasm until after 20 minutes or more. And sometimes it will not work, even if you do everything right. You need to love her anyway.
Most women will not achieve orgasm through an ordinary genital sexual intercourse. And men often are tired after their orgasm. Because of this, it may be best to ensure that the woman has an orgasm before the man. She will still be excited afterwards, and will enjoy his orgasm.
Women can enjoy sex even if they do not get an orgasm. They enjoy the nearness and intimacy, the fondling and the feeling of love and desire. A request from the man that she must have an orgasm can be a problem for the woman. In spite of this, you should try to learn to satisfy her. I know of women who have left their boyfriends when they have met a man who knows the right way.
Your girlfriend probably does not want to go to a gynecologist, because she feels that this is not the problem. One treatment for a dry vagina is lubricating gel. Do not tell her that she is lazy; instead try to understand her wishes and needs. Respect her, if she does not want to go to a gynecologist. To criticize her will kill all desire and she may resent this for a long time.
If you want something from her, ask her in a nice way, without criticism. Listen to what she says and try to understand her feelings and needs.
A woman who has never had an orgasm may be able to learn this by practice. Her chances of succeeding are higher if she has a partner who is responsive to her needs.
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Honesty
What’s the definition of honesty?
Is it saying what the other person wants to hear?
Is it saying what it is no matter what?
Is it keeping your mouth shut?
If someone told you do what you want, does that mean they’re
doing them???
If you where told I don’t care if you cheat on me is that a
clear indication that they’re probably doing it to you????
Sometimes we are faced with all these questions in a
relationship and though the answer seems clear it’s not its quit mine fucking
or is it????
We tend to do what our heart wants to do and unless your
mind gets turned to something else we can get a bit obsess with the B.S in our
lives.
Including me, can attest to being a victim to delusional
B.S. and now better than ever is the best time to clear that shit out!
First what’s the B.S, Identify what in your life is
causing/making you unhappy.
Second, confront the problem if it’s a person tell them
exactly how you feel, if its finances think of away to make it out… (example)
Third make those changes, and start living a life of
happiness.
Now, remember this is after you have self evaluated yourself
and you have identified exactly who you are, what you want, and where you want
to be.
Friday, April 8, 2011
How it feels to not be loved
To hold a hand and share a bed with someone who would rather
spend time with their friends,
To give your all and have a seed with someone whose favorite
words to you is LEAVE,
To change your life to suit their needs and in the end you
are alone on bended knees,
To wake up daily to a reminder that you are stupid, a punk,
and whore,
To walk around in I’m with him shirts, listening to the
laugher as we walk pass all his girls
To punish yourself and blame your ways for the reasons, he
refuses to change,
To go along and play his games, just so you can enjoy the
smiles and feel embraced in his bosoms,
To say it’s ok, when it’s ripping your heart to shreds,
To smile and be there for the rain, the pain, the betrayals,
the fame to bear his last name,
To labor and stress, to say I am truly blessed, while struggling
to find myself,
To wake up every day knowing that nothing has changed, but still answer your
calls in hopes that it has,
To finally sharing all that is in your heart, and hearing…..
STOP Bitching…. And let me hold some money…. And I’m a get some pussy tonight right… is how
it feels to not be loved!
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