Well Christie, it’s not really an age thing, it’s an experience and upbringing thing. Men can be responsible from a very young age if their parents trained them to be or if life gave them no other choice but to be. i.e a child, marriage, military, jail, or hardship that forces them to grow up before time. But unfortunately there is no time frame on when a man will grow up and become mature. Some do it early and some well lets just say I’ve seen senior citizen men that makes me go hhhmmm… I guess they never do!!!
Some men say they never really grow up they just give in to their women. Other differ saying that the statement men are immature doesn’t apply to all men just some… like the phrase all women are psycho, but not all are just most… lol
My advice to you is this: ask the questions that are important to you, and watch how he moves, you will never get your perfect man, but you will get someone who will compromise with you and try. Evaluate his morals, pass relationships, kids (if he has them), how he treats his mother, even his living habits. Then ask yourself is this what you want or do you have anything in common besides the lust or sexually attraction you are feeling right now. Just like they categorize us ask yourself is he marriage material even if you are not looking to jump the broom now you might what to later and then what.
I hope this helps…. Thanks for the question
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