nik@nite: December 2012

Thursday, December 27, 2012

A few things about this video 1) why is Ashanti always packing and leaving. 2) He's fine (lol)
3) I love this song.

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

will.i.am - Scream & Shout ft. Britney Spears

Monday, December 17, 2012

Sometimes you fall in love and loose site of yourself. Love is blinding in the way that you could be doing wrong and refuse to do right. You lead yourself astray to a fantasy land of make believe and romance. Songs ringing in your ear you are smitten by cupid’s arrow and refuses to see otherwise. Can I get a refill you sing, as the songs flow of your tongue to his ear you realize you’ve lost control and instantly need rehab to pull you back from thrusting yourself head first into this dark hole of the unknown!

Yet we know this is so wrong both feet of the floor we float towards each other lust.love.passion. flows in the air I can’t restrain myself from stripping myself of all my pride, immortal wisdom, and strength, I’ll be a fool for you 22 hours a day. The other 2 I'm fighting my conscience about right and wrong. This hold is so strong 24 is the number I was given the amount of weeks we’ve breath each other’s air. Then just like the fantasy it is !puff! It’s over and we carry on as if we’ve never met. Now those are the memories you won’t forget. ;)

Michael Sterling / Holiday

Elle Varner Featuring J. Cole - Only Wanna Give It To You

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Trinidad James - All Gold Everything Parody(All Ashy Everything)

T.I. - Ball ft. Lil Wayne

Put It Down-Brandy Ft. Chris Brown

Fabolous - Can't Let You Go featuring Mike Shorey & Lil'

What's he thinking on the first date???

1. "Does She Always Talk This Much?"
It can't be repeated enough: Guys have a low threshold for mindless chatter. If you're rambling on about your friends, coworkers, or anything you read on a gossip site, he's gonna feign interest, then fake an emergency doctor's appointment. Stick to asking him about bigger-picture topics, such as music and movies he digs, or what his friends are like.

2. "Can I Afford Her?"
Think twice before ordering a Patrón margarita. When you start with a pricey cocktail or appetizer, guys hear that ching-ching cash register sound in their heads — they think you're going to be too expensive to take out all the time. Unless he orders a fancy drink or dish first, stick with standard fare, and save the $$$ orders for when he's already smitten.

3. "Is She Gonna Tweet About This?"
After a first date, guys worry that you'll go all Carrie Bradshaw on them — you'll critique their every word and move on Facebook, on your blog, or on the phone with your girlfriends. To assure him you're not simply gathering material for your next man-bashing girls' brunch, do not hate on their kind ("what is it with you men?"), do not pause mid-date to update your FB status (it will just make him think you're posting something about him), and, for the love of God, do not mention that you aspire to be a dating blogger one day.

4. "Can I Bring Her Home to Mom?"
When guys first meet you, they picture you naked — you know this. But here's the kinda cute part: If they get a good vibe from you from the get-go, they're also picturing what their mom will think of you. To get Mother Approval right away, hold off on the F-bombs and plunging tops until the third or fourth date, when he already knows you're capable of at least pretending you're a perfect angel.

5. "Can She Hang With My Buddies?"
Men want to date women who can chill with the guys. If you're critical of the food, mean to the waitress, or uptight in any way, he'll conclude that you might be a drag around his boys. Not only is it a turnoff, he'll get crap from them about it, and he doesn't want that. Be sure to show off your easygoing attitude so he'll know his pals will totally dig your presence.

6. "Can I Make a Move Tonight?"
Sex. Sex. Sex. Yeah, it's running through his mind even as he's asking where you grew up and the name of your favorite childhood pet. And while most men won't try to sleep with you on the first date — they know enough to play the respectful guy card — they are still looking for affirmation that you also feel some chemistry and won't hold off on hooking up down the road. So if you're feeling it, give him a subtle signal — like an upper-arm or wrist touch or a flirty smile. That way he knows you're on the same page ... and you're guaranteed a date number two.

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What to Bring on a Date?

1. First and foremost you must have all of the necessary items for a date in reference to cash. Bring your wallet (guys) or purse (girls) to ensure that anything that needs to be purchased can be regardless of who is or isn't traditionally supposed to pay.

2. Remember the modern age of telecommunication that we live in demands that you bring your cell phone with you everywhere in case of emergency, etc. As a courtesy, if you do bring on a date your cell phone, turn it to silent or vibrate so the ring doesn't interrupt you in the middle of a interesting conversation.

3. Like it or not, folks you need to be prepared to bring condoms or other protective materials on a date. Even if you don't believe it will happen it is still a good idea to bring on a date just in case the mood and moment strikes the both of you.

4. If you must, or if it is just the type of person you are, bring a flower or something that you know that shell will like. You don't have to bring on a date anything in terms of a gift if you don't want to, but it may get you on the good side right away.

5. For the love of all things holy, bring the best possible version of you on a date. Nobody wants to be with some pathetic loser that had a horrible day at work and doesn't want to talk. Leave those things at home and have a good time, it is probably exactly what you need!

6. Be prepared to bring on a date a few things that will help you deal with whatever the weather conditions may be at the time. An umbrella, heavy coat, or the like will help you avoid looking your worst physically and acting your worst mentally or emotionally.

7. Ensure that if you are going somewhere that requires identification or tickets or the like that you have those things prepared in advance. Nothing is worse than getting to your destination and realizing you must go home first or, even worse, find something else to do.

8. For both parties in the date make sure that you (in your car or in your pocket, etc.) have something to write with and something to write on. You will need to arrange a second date or exchange numbers or something sometime on the date, so be prepared to bring these things on a date.

9. When thinking of things to bring on a date, don't forget about the personal things like your trust and honesty. You can only trust someone so much right away, so don't commit to too much too early, but at the same time be as honest as possible. This would be much easier to not have to say this, but the truth is the truth!

10. The final thing to bring on a date? Honest and real expectations. Don't expect too much physical contact, but don't expect nothing at all either. Understand that every date is different and this could be the best of your life or the worst...just go!