The Brain

I don’t know if its infatuation or simple satisfaction, but I’m smitten by your words and our physical attraction

What happened?

The path I was on was straight now I’m curving,

Swerving to the left, dipping round corners, laid out like I’ve been smoking Marijuana

Because my pheromones hit your nose,

Which triggered the words that floated out your month to my ears,

Raising the level of my Phenylethylamine now I am here,

Calling your phone wanting to be more than clear, that I’m walking on air

Lol, pics, and kisses I share

With you because you have me open

How ironic, you were chosen,

Like oil and water we are from different worlds

Like Dwayne and Whitley, the chemistry is sincere,

Mental thoughts of you, keeps me like a school girl, kee hee-ing in the school yard with my girls,

Talking bout he said this, *smiles, text, text, meet me here so we can talk for a while.

Don’t know what it is, but I say right place, right time, right actions, right minds make for a great time,

I’ma end this with two lines,

That we can converse about another time in another place, or just think about in our mind.

“I love it when you can me Big Poppa” – salute to the great …… Notorious BIG

“You know I’m on the grind. So I miss you at times. All on my mind, as I’m scribbling lines.” – Ricky Rozay

Another thought to paper… another note from the cerebrum--- Nik-at-Nite

Meagan Good & The H.E.L.L.O GIRLS LIVE at the RAGE for Lil SIS Sweet 16

Ok Meggan why! that is all...

What yo name is.....

So hood he makes me laugh, so laid back he lets me speak.

Got a lot going on, but we creep…

I don’t know man he might beez in the trap but maybe not you never know so I….

Never judge a book by its cover, never judge a person by their looks

Grab a nigga by the ballz better yet grab life by its horns

Ride it till the bull seize because ….

The teacher teaches the student and the student masters the art…

We make a movie and I sit back and press rewind …

Note to self

Sometimes stepping out and living your life can be so scary especially for the O so calculated Virgo minded. Life however, does not stop to calculate your moves, it’s important to live life smart without regrets. Make moves that involve risk. Pursue happiness and appreciate the person that is you. So note to self-note to readers. “Live life, love hard, recover gracefully, and embrace changes”

Learn from what was, and get ready for what will come. Be positive, laugh, cry, eat, but never give up, regret, or die inside….

How to Deal When You're Single after a Long-Term Relationship

FN deals with 4 scenarios common to dating in your 30s, and here's case no. 1: re-entering the dating game after a breakup.

By Ana Santos

Dating isn’t easy. All the complications like determining who should make the first move, who should pay for the date, what you should wear, and the question of should you end the date with a handshake or a kiss is enough to confuse anyone. And whether you’re a newbie or a dating veteran, you know that these questions are not easily answered.

But there is a different set of issues when it comes to dating in your 30s and beyond. With growing older comes a different set of concerns. In this part of our Mature Girl’s Guide to Dating series, we will be discussing four different scenarios that women of a certain age may face when it comes to romance and dating.

Read on and you may just find a few tips you can use, whether you’re 21, 31, or even 41.


CASE #1: "It’s been so long. I feel so old-fashioned. I’m so conscious of what my date will think of me. What if he thinks I’m too eager to get back into a relationship? Really, I’m not!"

Janice*, 34, is a banker who is just getting over an eight-year relationship. "He was my childhood friend and first boyfriend," she says. "It came to a point where we had different goals in life and had to part ways. It was hard because I’ve already developed a bond with his family and genuinely care for them. But I realized that you can’t force a happy ending just because you spent a number of years together."

Six months into what she calls her grieving period, she sought comfort in the arms of a friend. "(But) when the relationship became intimate," she recalls, "I felt guilty for using him to fill the void."

Real estate broker Karen, 40, recently left an 11-year-relationship. "This may sound mean, but the relationship was not working for me anymore," she says. "I was bored. Eight years into the relationship, I had wanted to leave but couldn’t bring myself to do it. He was such a nice guy but he felt things were fine as they were. He was more interested in his PS2s and cars rather than investing in our future. I wasn’t necessarily looking for a ring, but I had wanted to travel and relocate to a new home. I didn’t want to be the only one to carry the financial load."

Karen’s breakup was painful, even for her. "Leaving him made me feel guilty," she says. "Sometimes I wonder if I just ruined his life. But then if I had stayed, that would have probably ruined my life."

Both women have now cautiously gone back to dating other people at the prodding of their friends.

"I grudgingly agreed to date, but only in group dates," says Janice. "My aversion to dating is not really related to my past experience with my ex. Even before him, I didn’t like dating, which I find to be pretentious and taxing."

Karen, who was more used to dating in her younger days, admits to feeling uneasy when she goes out with someone. "It’s been so long. I feel so old-fashioned sometimes. It takes me so long to figure out what to wear, what the appropriate ‘date places’ are these days and most of all, how to behave. I’m always so conscious of how I come across to my date. God forbid that he sees me as someone too eager to get back into the comfort of a relationship which, really, I’m not."

courtesy of Female Network

Satisfying Your Woman -Eat her well

Women often complain about men's ability to perform cunnilingus or, as it's more commonly called, oral sex. There are hundreds of men who write us asking for advice on how to give her oral sex. We can only imagine the millions of others who stand like a possum caught in headlights when it comes to the task. As such, we thought it was time to give readers a more in-depth look into the vagina and the amazing things that guys (and gals) can do to it with their tongues.

The following oral sex techniques are a simple guide to teaching all of you the basics of "eating out."



If you're not much of a vaginal vacuum and are hesitant to try oral sex because of odors or whatever other preconceived notions that you have, ensuring that she has just come out of the shower will ease your tension and you'll be able to let loose orally. There are men who stand their ground and absolutely refuse to perform oral sex; we suggest you get over yourself, because your girl likes to receive oral sex as much as you consider a good blow job a part of foreplay.

Tongue to lips

Any licking, gentle sucking or all-around moisture from the mouth to the vaginal entrance, the labia (lips) or the clitoris will surely make you popular with your flavor of the evening.

When you begin to give her oral sex, it's important to start slowly. Women like it when a man takes the time to appreciate her and her body. What she won't like is an overachiever who jumps right in with an aggressive tongue. Pretend that her entire vagina is an ice-cream cone with three scoops of your favorite flavor; if you don't like ice cream, we're sure you can still appreciate the metaphor. Use your tongue to lick her vagina from its entrance up to the clitoris. Remember to chill out and relax; enjoy yourself and don't get tense.

Move your tongue freely from her inner lips to her outer labia on one side. Once you've done that, draw her lips into your mouth and massage them with your tongue. And since the other side will probably get jealous, move on to the other side afterward.

Oral exploration

Were you aware that the tongue is the body's strongest muscle? Well imagine what you could do with your tongue if you were giving her oral sex. Since you have more control with your tongue than with your penis, the sensations will drive her crazy.

Not only is your tongue naturally lubricated with saliva, you can maneuver it in ways that a penis never could. So why not use your tongue to have sex with her? Thrust your tongue in and out of her vagina, and take a break from time to time to explore her insides.

While you're roaming around down there, vary your cadence and the firmness of your tongue. Use your firm, flexed tongue for pinpoint accuracy, such as when you circle the clitoris, and use a limber, flat tongue to cover more ground.

Remember to continuously return to her clitoris since most women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation -- especially when it comes to oral sex. However, don't apply too much pressure to her clitoris right away because it may irritate her and turn her off. Start out gently and increase pressure and speed according to her body language.

Above all, have fun down there when you're giving her oral sex, and keep her on her toes (or off as the case may be).

Intense vaginal volume

When you have her as hot as a lioness in heat, the following oral sex techniques are going to drive her wild. Once again, make sure to pay attention to her reactions and body language at all times.

With her clitoris still exposed, give it quick little sucks by enveloping it with your mouth momentarily and releasing it. This will definitely have a positive effect on her entire body.

Next, take her clitoris into your mouth and gently suck on it while you simultaneously flick your tongue over and around it. You can perform this oral technique very lightly or aggressively, depending on what she likes.

If you combine these oral sex techniques with your fingers, she will have a mind-blowing orgasm virtually every time.

Use your fingers

There is nothing that a woman likes more than a multitalented man. And if you know how to use both your tongue and fingers at the same time, you will definitely become her oral sex king.

While you're French kissing her clitoris, use your finger to rub it at the same time. If you can rub your stomach and pat your head at the same time, you might want to suck on her clitoris, penetrate her vagina and thrust repeatedly with your fingers.

Be careful not to lose sight of what you're doing because the vagina is a very sensitive area and one wrong move can leave you hung out to dry. Keep up with what you're doing to her. Make sure that you're not thrusting your fingers too deep or too fast. You might also want to use your finger to rub her G-Spot; it's not that big of a mystery as it's a rough-feeling portion of flesh located on the anterior wall of the vagina.

The tongue's the one

Use your tongue freely and don't be afraid to venture into uncharted territory; the more relaxed you are, the more relaxed she will be. And perhaps you weren't aware of this, but if your woman is a gusher, the feeling of her ejaculate flowing all over your mouth is one of the world's greatest aphrodisiacs.

No one likes a slobbering idiot, so don't lose your mind while you're in her sacred garden. Don't start drooling all over her vagina and don't do random things when you're giving her oral sex. Always have a strategy when you're going down and an escape plan, just in case you hit a foul ball.

Lastly, and we can't stress this enough: Never bite any part of the vagina. Not only can it cause physical harm, but you'll probably get thrown into the dog house.

Useful positions

In order to make your oral buffet as comfortable and as enjoyable as possible, have your lady lie on her back with her legs spread apart and her knees slightly bent. Get on your stomach between her legs and slide your arms under her legs. Your head ends up comfortably facing your oral objective. Wrap your arms around her legs and you'll have perfect access to her vagina, which allows you to manipulate it with your fingers.

You can also lie down in the same position and place both of your hands under her behind, elevating it so that it comes directly to your face. Although this requires a little more strength and requires both your hands, it can be very pleasurable for your woman.

Finally, you can bring her behind to the edge of the bed while you give her oral sex. Have her rest her feet on your shoulders or on the edge of the bed as well, and you'll have plenty of access while you kneel in front of her. This position will also give your fingers full access to her vagina.

bon appetit

There you have it -- some of the basics to giving her oral sex. Of course this isn't a definitive oral sex guide, but it's a good place to start. There are plenty of other positions and techniques that you can try; the ones here are just some of the more comfortable positions. Remember: Don't be shy, be gentle, take your time, experiment, and have fun.

Read more: http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip/36b_love_tip.html#ixzz20Dyfk9MX

How to Give Good Head

Learning how to give head to a guy is often misunderstood. Fortunately it's very straightforward and easy to give your man an awesome blow job if you do just a few things right. As the creator of the Bad Girl's Bible I get questions about giving head to guys everyday. Below I'm going to give you 6 blowjob tips to get you started on giving your man great head.

Think About The Tip! The top part of your man's penis is the most sensitive part by far. More sensitive = more pleasure. Scientifically this is known as the glans or head of his penis. It's the purple part of his penis that looks distinctively different to the rest of it.

When you are first learning how to give head to your man, you need to concentrate on this area more than any other. The great thing about focusing mostly on giving oral to the head of your man's penis is that you don't have to worry about taking it deep into your mouth or throat, so you don't have to worry too much about coughing, choking or gagging.

Start by gently and softly kissing the head of his penis with moist lips before taking the very tip of it into your mouth. Wrap your lips over it and then run the tip of your tongue all around the very tip of his penis. You can make a circular motion with your tongue or you can just lick it up and down.

This is just one awesome way to start giving your man head.

From The Bottom To The Top. Once you are comfortable using your tongue to give head to your guy, it's time to try something a little more advanced! You are going to be gently massaging his penis from the base right to the tip with your tongue.

Start by lightly grabbing his penis with your hand and pressing it towards his stomach so that you can easily lick the underside of it.

You are going to start right at the base of his penis, by his testicles. Use your lips to lightly squeeze his balls, but also make sure to kiss and lick them too. You can even take one or both of them into your mouth and suck on them or use your tongue to massage them.

Next you are going to very slowly trace your tongue along the underside of his penis from the base, all the way up the Corpus Spongiosum (this is the soft ridge that runs the length of the underside of his penis). Once you reach the top of his penis, it's time to take it into your mouth and start sucking it.

Use Those Fingers! When you are trying to figure out how to give head to a man, you may be wondering what techniques you should use with your mouth or tongue. Many people get so caught up with the blow job part of giving head that they sometimes forget about using their hands. Don't worry! Using your hands while giving head to your guy is something that he'll adore!

If you use the first blow job technique that I described 'Think About The Tip', then you will have your hands free. While they are free, there's no need to leave them idle. Use...

Use one hand to grab your man's shaft and slowly jerk it up and down, while keeping the head of his penis in your mouth. Now with your other hand, gently cup his balls and lightly squeeze them and run your fingers around them. Doing all three things at once is not the easiest thing to do, but once you get the hang of it, you will be an oral sex goddess!

Use A Little Suction. Using the first 3 techniques I described will make you better at giving head than most of the population. But there is no need to rest on your laurels just yet. Another really nice technique to use while giving head to your man is to use a little suction.

Contrary to popular belief, this is not to suck anything out of him. Instead the purpose of sucking his penis is to apply more skin-on-skin contact to his head and shaft which will give it more stimulation which means more pleasure for him.

All you need to do is to take his penis a little further into your mouth (2-5+ inches deep), then wrap your lips around it so no air can get in or out. Next, just start gently sucking so that your lips and cheeks close in around his shaft and head. Now slowly move his penis into and out of your mouth while trying to maintain this gentle suction.
BJ Tip: Don't forget to breath while giving your man a blowjob! When you are learning how to give head to a guy, you may feel like you have to maintain the same level of suction on your man's penis for 10 or 20 minutes. You don't! Just do it for 10 to 20 seconds at a time and then afterwards take a rest or use a different technique.
More Powerful Tips. The blow job tips that I just gave you should serve as a great foundation to learning how to give good head. But if you are serious about learning how to blow your man's mind with great oral sex, then I highly suggest you learn from the Bad Girl's Bible website and newsletter where I give my most advanced tips on blowjobs, lovemaking positions and talking dirty.

Courtesy of Your Tango

Top 25 Places To Have Sex In America

1) In the Shower
Get a little dirty while you're getting clean.

2) On the Shore of a Beautiful Secluded Lake
Outdoor lovemaking is exciting in itself; a great view during your tryst is even better.

3) In the Locker Room at the Gym
Find out what else your muscles are capable of.

4) In the Highest Row of a Concert
Make the nosebleed section a bit more fun.

5) In the Dark Corner of a Hookah Lounge
Put those comfortable pillows to good use.

6) While You're Out Test-Driving a New Car
Pull over and enjoy two rides in one day—as long as the salesman is back at the dealership.

7) On the Balcony of Your Hotel Room
Maybe people can see you, maybe not, but that's part of the fun.

8) At a Public Library Between the Stacks of Books
Your chance to live out that naughty-librarian fantasy.

9) In the Parking Lot of Your Local Police Precinct
As Martin Lawrence said in, "Wham, bam, thank you, Officer."

10) High Up in a Tree
Gives tree-hugger a whole new meaning.

11) While Waiting in Line at a Fast-Food Drive Through
Burn enough calories and you can order extra fries.

12) On a Ferris Wheel at Night
Get the most out of the slow climb.

13) On the Teacher's Desk
Take this standard role-play scenario to a new level.

14) While Handcuffed to Your Bed At Home
Handcuffs are a great way for beginners to push their sexual boundaries while still feeling safe.

15) In a Huge Lecture Hall During a Lecture
It's not like you were paying attention anyway.

16) In a Cemetery on a Dark, Foggy Night
Somebody needs to liven up the place.

17) In the Stairwell of Your Office Building
The best way to mix business with pleasure.

18) In a Tent on a Camping Trip
Reward him for setting up the tent by making sure he pitches another one later.

19) On a Bearskin Rug by the Fire
Yes, it's a cliche, but there must be a reason it's so popular...

20) At the Lincoln Memorial
Emancipate your desire.

21) In the Confessional
You can repent immediately after you've finished sinning.

22) In the Loft of a Barn Full of Hay
Take a roll in the hay, literally.

23) At Your Team's Stadium
Even if they lose, you'll feel like a winner.

24) At a Sex Museum
Learn it, then live.

25) Climax, CO
See if the town lives up to its name.

courtesy of Your Tango

How to Get a Man to Like You After Sex! Follow This Before You End Up Facing Tremendous Humiliation

By Russell Jackson

So, you went head on and let your passion consume you-now, the day after, you're wondering how in the world you're going to keep this encounter from becoming just a one night stand! Try these 7 tips that would make any man fall for you even after giving yourself to him:

Still, put your best foot forward
So what if it all started with physical attraction and sex? It doesn't mean that your feelings won't develop. As you wake up the next morning, make sure that you fix yourself and take a very good look in the mirror before you face him. Don't scare him by letting him see your face in the morning, more so make him go back to sleep with your morning breath!
Put on a little makeup and-yeah, wear something this time!

Prepare a simple meal that you could share
Since it's a whirlwind encounter, the morning after should be devoted to setting things in their proper perspective. Don't overdo it by preparing him a breakfast in bed; instead, just prepare a simple meal that you both will enjoy. This will show him that you can cook and take care of him-which are major points that you would want to score!

Have an intelligent conversation
Don't go beside this guy that you just met and start waking him up. Allow him to take things in his own time. If you have to wait for him to get up, then do so. Once he gets up, break the ice (once more) and start a great conversation. Feel the mental chemistry this time.

Appreciate him
Tell him that your first time in bed with him was great. After all, you're both adults and feeling shy or awkward about the whole thing won't help so just assure him that everything's fine and you feel great. Your confidence should catch his attention and this will make him decide to get to know you better.

Don't linger
Even though you've made love, this guy you just met also needs some time to think things through-just as you do. Don't show him from the onset that you're too clingy-this will only drive him away from you.

Expect nothing in return
You gave yourself willingly the other night so don't expect him to commit all because something happened between you. Nonchalantly give him a hug (or a light kiss on his cheek) then go. This will make him feel that although he already had sex with you, that you're still not that easy to get.

Be friends
If you don't want this to be a one time, spur-of-the-moment act, then begin to befriend him. Show him that you are fun to be with and that having sex with you doesn't guarantee that he already knows everything about you. Make him feel that there is more that he can conquer

courtesy of ezarticles